parenting and its style

                                     Styles of Parenting

Why parenting is necessary?

 Parenting is a process that develops the children's growth and independence. Not every parenting style is in favor of a child. There needs a lot of guidance and true awareness to grow the child and polish his/her innate capabilities'.So there should be used different parenting styles for child safety, health, and development.

 

 Different Styles of parenting :

· Authoritarian or Disciplinarian Parenting

· Permissive or Indulgent Parenting

· Uninvolved Parenting

· Authoritative Parenting

 

   How do cope with these parenting styles?

 Children of all ages–toddlers through teens–have a hard-wired need for power.  When children don’t have opportunities to exert their power in positive ways–choosing what clothes to wear, making the dinner menu, picking what game to play, etc.–they will exert their power in negative ways.

 

 There is always something motivating a child’s negative or disruptive behavior.The thing to remember is the behavior itself is simply the symptom. Our challenge as parents is figuring out what’s really underneath that frustrating behavior. Picture yourself as a detective. When a child begins to act out, ask yourself “What is this child trying to accomplish through his actions?”  If he had the verbal skills and emotional awareness, “What would he be trying to tell me with this behavior,so there applies proper parenting style technique.

 

Get on Their Level 

When you need your child’s attention, make sure you get her attention–that means eye contact. When you lower yourself down and look her in the eye, you not only verify she sees and hears you, but you strengthen the communication as well. This is a good way of positive parenting.

Parenting Quotes and Good Parenting

 

 Do Away With Don’t Instead tell your child what to do.

 Don’t touch your brother. Don’t run in the hall. Don’t play with your food. Don’t read the next sentence. (See what I did there?)

Negative commands, such as “don’t” and “no” require kids to double process

 

Say YES to YES

  Your “yes” answers will begin to surprise and delight your child and have

them paying more attention when you ask for something!

Instead of “No we can’t go to the park,” try “The park sounds awesome! Should we go Friday after school or Saturday morning?

 

 Shorten your Speech

 Oh boy, I was as guilty of this as anyone. Parents, and especially moms, tend to turn a five-second answer into a five-minute dissertation!

Ensure Comprehension

A simple way to ensure your child has heard you and that she understands is to ask her to repeat back what you said.

 

 See it from his point of view.

"I know it's hard to stop playing, Honey. You're really enjoying that, and I can see why! And now I need you to....."

 

 Engage cooperation with empathy. 

"It's bath time, Sweetie. Do you want to go now or in five minutes? OK, five minutes with no fuss? Let's shake on it."

 keep your tone warm. When possible, give choices

  Tell your child about you. 

While some things are your personal business and not meant for your child’s ears, kids feel connected to their parents when their parents can open up to them. For example, tell them about your school days, your hobbies, and your dreams. Your child will be more likely to open up to you if you can open up to him/her.

 Be consistent with the consequences

If you tell your child that you will leave the park if he continues to stand up in the swing, follow through without giving him another chance. Your child will be more inclined to do what he's asked when he understands that his actions have clear, enforceable consequences.

Play listening games

Make listening fun by putting on some music and dancing with your child. Ask your child to tiptoe during the soft parts and stomp or march during the loud parts. Positive parenting styles help improve child health mentally and physically.

ACKNOWLEDGE AND VALIDATE TO WIN THEIR HEART

I read a beautiful quote in my go-to parenting book that says,

“What every young child would tell us if they could, is to please hold onto them, not take their actions personally, and to love them despite their immaturity.”

 SUPPORT THE TRANSITION

All kids love and should love playing. This right here is their way of learning life skills, cooperation, focus, and creativity. so parenting is all about sporting others.

Playing with your child doesn’t have to be a long and formal session. Just set 10 minutes/day. And if you promise to do it for 5 days in a row, I can also promise that you will see a remarkable.